Early Revelations.
Early in my research into the alternate health field, I had some interesting revelations. During one particular meditation, I had a visualization about how a Child develops it's Awareness and Consciousness each time it incarnates. I has remained a real curiosity and I place it amongst some of my gems. A Soul returning to Earth is a bit like a Plane landing at an Airport. The imagery is full of symbolism and requires an analysis of the components and their interactions.
The Soul Essence lands like a Plane.
Imagine a Plane represents the Souls Essence. The Soul establishes its earthly connection at conception. It then goes into a flight pattern, hovering around for Nine months in the womb and it's Consciousness (psychic and emotional framework) continues to build until it actually lands (concrete stage) on earth at around seven years of age. From conception, the Soul begins to take in everything it can about the airport: it's birth environment, the people and the conditions it will grow up in. It hears communications through the womb, from the mother and other people in the environment.
The plane or Soul will experience a wide range of Environmental Weather conditions before landing. The Weather is very influential and will affect the Souls awareness development. Extreme environmental turbulence may create a dysfunctional and insecure child, for instance. Clear, settled environmental conditions may produce a secure child.
The Soul brings all it's Baggage.
The Soul's Essence contains the total collection of consciousness that has accumulated throughout all it's previous reincarnations. The individuals total life history is imbedded in the Soul's Essence. It remembers all the past experiences that facilitated the Soul's progress as well as all the past experiences that remain unresolved. The Soul's conscious recall and understanding of this history depends on a combination of things. Some aspects that will influence the Souls Memory Expression (SME) will be: the number and quality of past lives, the sensitivity of the individual and the environment the individual grows up in.
The Soul decides to land.
At Childbirth the Spirit Guides erase a portion of the Souls memory so as to minimize the shock to the nervous system. However, between pregnancy, birth and up to 7 years of age the Child can still recall memory of the Soul's Essence to a large extent. How much the Child is able to recall and incorporate into it's Memory Awareness (MA) in the first seven years depends on how sympathetic the environment is. Calm, clear environments may allow the Child to: recall, collect, collate, assimilate and accommodate it's past lives into a functioning personal identity. When the child grows up in a sympathetic environment and has been allowed to process it's return to earth, it intuitively understands where it has come from and where it is meant to go in this life.
It is important to remember that there will be many different causes why the Soul's reincarnation is 'terminated' before landing. Termination can be by choice, through accumulated grace (karma) or the airport (environment) can terminate incarnation as well. Either way, the Soul has registered another incarnation without having to suffer the full rebirth experience. The Soul can see if a termination is eminent and can choose this moment to incarnate partially and return to the afterlife without fully 'landing'.
You can expand and elaborate on this model at will. It does however open the debate on: what choices the Soul makes before it arrives?, how much of the pregnancy and infancy the Child remembers? What are the best methods and environments to bring up a well adjusted spiritually proactive child?